Don't Choke


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Don't Choke

The vision in my left eye was getting foggier by the minute.

“Oh no!” I thought as a couple of tears started dripping out of my left eye.

"Don't choke, Ashley. You have two more songs to sing and no time to cry.”

“Get yourself together!"

"What if your voice cracks at the mic?”

After a few minutes of worrying and trying to wipe away the tears, I decided it was pointless and just let them slowly trickle down my cheek.

I was sitting by the piano on the side of the church sanctuary while the son of a woman I’d never met shared one cherished memory after another about his mother.

I’ve cantored for many funerals—usually for strangers, so there’s little worry that I’ll get emotional and not be able to sing when I need to.

Today was no different.

Until the eulogy.

It was so heartfelt, conversational, and touching that by the end, I felt as though I knew this woman—a lady whose life was long and very different from my own, but who clearly loved and was deeply loved by many.

What struck me most was the thread of contentment that ran through his memories of her: her marriage, her family, her favorite activities, her community.

These days, we’re constantly encouraged to reach for more.

But if we never pause to enjoy what we have now, what is it all for?

As her son wrapped up his speech, you could hear a chorus of sniffles throughout the congregation.

And then it was time for me to step up to the mic and sing.

Could I?

Thankfully, yes.

I can think of a few very public instances in my singing career when I’ve been grateful for waterproof eyeliner.

Today was one of them.

But I walked out of that church with a new perspective on ambition—and a renewed determination not to let the joys of the future get in the way of the joys of the now.

With gratitude,

Ashley


WHAT'S NEXT?

BREADA Farm Fete

I'm thrilled to be performing once again for the 2026 BREADA Farm Fete Annual Fundraiser (which supports important local programming like the Red Stick Farmer's Market). Come on out Sept. 24th, enjoy the evening festivities (indoors and outdoors), and show your support for our fav local market and vendors! Get tickets here.

And I hope to see y'all at an upcoming Red Stick Farmer's Market (8am to 12pm in Downtown Baton Rouge) on the following dates:

  • Sat., Oct. 10th
  • Sat., Nov. 21st

This relaxed environment is always a highlight of the week--like going to the grocery store on a Sunday after church used to be (minus the "having to get dressed up part." haha). Getting to say hi to all your friends and neighbors while stocking up on fresh veggies and fruit for the week. You can even request your favorite jazz song!

Now that the Main Street Market is open again, you can also get breakfast and hang out for a while!


Solo @ Cafe Sydnie Mae

Cafe Sydnie Mae is a must-visit brunch spot in south Louisiana!

Featuring Cajun-influenced steaks and seafood with craft cocktails and live music. Warm, neighborhood dining and scratch-made dishes.

On Sunday, Sept. 27th, enjoy the sweet sounds of the Great American Songbook with Ashley Orlando and her ukulele from 10:30am to 1:30pm.

*Reservations recommended*

Visit https://cafesydniemae.com/ for more information.


Fall in St. Francisville

Join me for a weekend of art and music in St. Francisville this October!

I'll be playing a solo set at Bayou Sara Brewing Co. on Sat., Oct. 24th, from 1pm to 4pm.

PLUS, a solo set at the Yellow Leaf Arts Festival in Parker Park on Sun., Oct. 25th, from 10am to 11am.

Come for an hour, a day trip, or the whole weekend!

ABOUT YELLOW LEAF ARTS FESTIVAL

Each year in October, the Yellow Leaf Arts Festival comes to St. Francisville. More than 55 artists and craftspeople show and sell their creations, great live music, activities for children, all nestled in the friendly, relaxed, authentic, small-town quaintness that is St. Francisville.


Weddings/Special Events

Do you need live music for an upcoming wedding or private event? Book now for all of 2026! Ashley can accommodate a variety of band sizes (from solo voice/ukulele to acoustic duo/trio, and even sextet!). Reach out soon for more info and the best availability.


UPCOMING EVENTS YOU WON'T WANT TO MISS!

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SEP
24
Ashley Orlando Solo @ 2026 BREADA Farm Fête
Baton Rouge, LA
SEP
27
Ashley Orlando SOLO @ Cafe Sydnie Mae
Breaux Bridge, LA
OCT
10
Ashley Orlando Solo @ Red Stick Farmer's Market
Baton Rouge, LA
OCT
24
Bayou Sara Brewing Company
Saint Francisville, LA
OCT
24
Ashley Orlando Solo @ Yellow Leaf Arts Festival 2026
Saint Francisville, LA
NOV
21
Ashley Orlando Solo @ Red Stick Farmer's Market
Baton Rouge, LA
DEC
05
Holiday Sinatra 2 @ LSU Union Theater
Baton Rouge, LA
MAY
11
Tribute to Randy Newman
Baton Rouge, LA

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